I’ve been married for 3 years.My home was peaceful until 2 weeks ago.I returned from the market and found a young girl in my living room, eating my food and watching my TV like she owned the place.Before I could process it, her mother walked out of my guest room with luggage and said, “My daughter is pregnant for your husband. She will stay here till she gives birth.”

I froze. My husband couldn’t even look
at me. He said it was a “mistake” and he couldn’t send a pregnant woman away.

Since then, my life has changed. The girl doesn’t greet me. If I greet her, she hisses. She wears my clothes, uses my towel, and sits comfortably like I’m the visitor. When I complained, she said, “Everything here belongs to your husband, so it belongs to me too.”

Two days ago, I found her relaxing and laughing on my marital bed. My husband’s solution was to give me money to buy new bedsheets.

At that point, I asked myself: Do I want money or respect?

What’s breaking me is that I’m also pregnant—2 months gone. I haven’t told my husband. I’m hurt, angry, and feel invisible.

Next week, I’m supposed to travel for university. If I go, I leave her here with my husband. If I stay, I lose my chance to build my future.

I’m stuck. Do I tell him I’m pregnant too? Do I go to school and risk everything? Or do I walk away from this marriage completely?

I’m tired and confused. What would you do if you were me? 😭💔